The Erotic as Power

“The Erotic is a resource within each of us that lies in a deeply female and spiritual plane.” - Audre Lorde

Sovereignty and Seduction is a weekend workshop that helps women connect to their true sensual and erotic nature. The workshop is my passion project and after a year away, I'll be back this September co-leading with Hannah Abend in London.


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Is Your Need For Control Keeping You Small?

Some of us cling to control of how we perceived physically - we feel our body is letting us down and we need to perfect it. We focus on losing that extra ten pounds, ‘only then’ will we be ready for happiness and success. Some of us cling to control of how we’re perceived mentally, we need to be seen as successful, intelligent, top of the class, first in line for promotion, and it keeps us small.

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What's your Hell Yes?

A hell yes is a full-hearted, unequivocal, no-holds-barred YES. It could be a yes to a specific act, to a place, to a person, to an idea, or even to a sensation. It’s something you know that you deeply want in your life. 

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Why Vulnerability Unlocks Good Sex

Last Friday I spoke at Women’s Health Live on a panel titled “Let’s talk about sex: Why aren’t you coming?”.

As I reflect on it, the moment that stands out for me is the discussion we had about better communication with our partners, and the importance of creating space for that real vulnerability and depth.

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Wild Geese

Sometimes the right poem on the right day reminds us who were are and puts things in perspective. We heard Ann Dowd read this yesterday and have read it ten times since.

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Your Only Job

In this three day weekend workshop, you will be awakening your empowered sexual woman within and enjoying the confidence this brings not only to your relationships, but to your sense of self-worth and value as a woman.

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