THE EROTIC SELF 1:1 COACHING JOURNEY
Reclaim your power. Embody your pleasure. Lead with confidence
The Erotic Self is the magnetic, intuitive, and embodied part of you that fuels true feminine confidence.
Lead from your feminine, erotic power
Heal shame and release limiting beliefs around your body, sex, and relationships
Explore and embody your deepest desires
Design a life aligned with pleasure, radiance, and truth
WHAT CLIENTS SAY
“A must for every woman who wishes to explore her sensuality and sexuality and break through barriers and preconceptions imposed by culture, upbringing or personal history.”
Daphne, Founder & CEO
What’s included
Whether you're entering a new chapter, reclaiming your voice, or seeking deeper self-connection, this container is a space for powerful transformation through intimacy—with yourself.
120-minute Discovery Session
Begin with a deep-dive into your current reality, desires, and inner landscape—anchored by a guided Erotic Self Visualisation to initiate your journey.7 x 60-minute Private Coaching Sessions
Ongoing sessions tailored to your unique path, offering consistent clarity, accountability, and intuitive support.1 Akashic Records Reading
A focused reading on love, sex, and romantic relationships to reveal deeper truths, clear energetic blocks, and reconnect you with soul-level wisdom.Personalized Resources
You’ll receive curated books, embodiment practices, rituals, and tools chosen specifically for you.
This is for you if you’re ready to...
Reconnect with your sensuality and feminine energy
Feel confident in your body and magnetic in your presence
Break free from old patterns and internalized shame
Lead and live from desire—not duty
Step into your next level of expression, love, and power
Commitment
This is a 4-5 month coaching programme, with 2 sessions per month, plus in-between action and accountability. Allow for 2-3 hours per week.
Ready to explore your Erotic Self?
Let’s begin.
Nikki’s story
I used to walk around like a ‘walking head’, disconnected from my body, hoping my make-up and smile would mask how unconfident I felt. Sexually I didn't think I was any good. I would focus on my partner’s pleasure, unable to ask for what I wanted, let alone receive it. The hardest thing for me was to ask for what I wanted and so I stayed quiet. This didn’t only happen in the bedroom, this happened in life.
A big part of my journey to empower myself was to reclaim my sexuality, which turned on my confidence, and turned off the repressed, never-good-enough, good-girl.
I wanted to learn what it meant to be a turned on, sexual woman. I moved into a conscious sexuality community for two years, I practised orgasmic meditation, I went to tantra workshops, learned BDSM and now lead sexual empowerment workshops for women.
I love supporting women to empower themselves through their sexuality, it’s a rich opportunity to release the shame and fears we hold around our worth, body, relationships, and sex. And to remember that we are built for pleasure.
“Female sexual pleasure, is not just about sexuality, or just about pleasure. It serves, also, as a medium of female self knowledge and hopefulness: female creativity and courage: female focus and initiative: female bliss and transcendence: and as a medium of sensibility that feels very much like freedom. To understand the vagina properly is to realise that it is not only coextensive with the female brain, but is also, essentially, part of the female soul.”
Vagina by Naomi Wolf
What Women Say
What an unbelievable gift to give yourself. You will leave this work with a greater sense of self, an evolution in femininity.
Josephine W
As a female founder and CEO, there are rare occasions when we can take time out and explore our female energy and sexuality in a context of societal norms and what and how we want to incorporate into the boardroom and bedroom.
Tracy O
For the last 27 years I’ve battled with hating my body, being constrained by my limiting beliefs about the way I look in and out of the bedroom. In working with Nikki, I've not only realised how amazing my body is, I’ve embraced my sexuality and I’m exploring areas that I was simply too scared to do.
Charlotte Pearce, Founder & CEO
This work is liberating, challenging and beautiful.
Annalie H
Working with Nikki showed me that sex, desire and pleasure provide me with immense power. How we enjoy pleasure is often a metaphor for our life. The things we do or don't do, including making ourselves vulnerable, expressing our wants and needs or withholding our own pleasure, are manifestations of how we engage with life and can support or hinder us in direct proportions.
Jo Rogers, Lawyer
WOMEN’S HEALTH LIVE
Why is it that millions of sexually active women aren’t reaching the big O? In this session at Women’s Health Live, Nikki explored the science and psyche of sexual pleasure and the positive physical and mental impact of clocking up more climaxes.
QUINTESSENTIALLY
Nikki’s starts a new quarterly column in Quintessentially’s Noted Magazine. Her first article was published today: Please yourself – why embracing pleasure makes for a well-rounded life.
HUFF POST
Huffington Post - Why Being Honest With Yourself Is The Key To Unlocking Sexual Desire